Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Relationship:)

These past weeks have been about 101 on relationships.

Omgosh:) I have learned so much about relationships these past weeks. I listen to David Jeremiah and Tony Evans and all them brothers and i learned some many things.
First things I've learned, relationships are not only about you being happy (shocker, i really thought for the longest time that was what it was about) its about serving your partner. I'm not talking cocktail waitress serving I talking about being there, and being a friend. You know how the bible is always saying serve others, now i get it. To be in an intimate relationship with someone you have to learn that its not always about what you get out of it its about what you put into it. Wow that is the deepest thing I've ever said:)))
Second thing I've learned, its not about the looks, its about the person. Okay, well I've heard that before, you know "don't judge a book by its cover" but I've never really grasped it. Its really not easy to do that...idk if this is a problem but every cute guy i see i hit on...wait that is problem:(( Well this tip is really something I'm working on...but I do believe that yu really have to befriend someone and then figure out whether you want the relationship to go deeper. But i advise you don't befriend just for the sake of relationship. I know some girls desperate for bf's and its not like they really want one it just that at school we are influenced by the stupid couples making out in the hallways. I see that and i gag, i really think it is weird to get all close and personal with someone if you're not married. I am commited to never kissing someone until my wedding day...that may be hard but it will definitely be worth it. Well, i've rested on this topic for too long....moving on...
Three thing I've learned.........wait i forgot :? Man I need to take some vitamin I'm too young to get memory loss I'm only in high school ya'll. Tune in for more when i recover from my forgetfulness...

Auf Wiedersehen:)))
Gracegirl316